When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint.
But he feels I need to stick to one career and be content. He will not be permitted to bless the child in front of the ward, for instance, so you will have to choose to forego that ritual or find someone else to stand in for the father, which he may not be comfortable with.
First of all, Mormons are people so there is a spectrum of what they actually believe on a personal level, and what beliefs are most important to them. I dated non mormon men.
I love how this applies to ALL marriages.
I keep telling myself we just have to get through these exams, then it will be easier, but now I am beginning to realise that it will probably always be like this!. I tried telling him that I know myself enough that I would not be happy in this kind of relationship.