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Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert.
Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start.
The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person. That's all we're really saying.