Black teen gets all holes destroyed.
From a guy's perspective, I was dating a doctor who was going through her final exams to become a registered specialist. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling.
Plan on her family trying to torpedo your relationship if you don't convert. Yes I am married to a doctor also after being married for 5 yrs he decided to become a trama surgeon.
No one knows your situation the way you do.
If this is his first year, I believe he has at least two more years, possibly as many as four or five. He has never said a disparaging word about his mother.
We did things differently this time around, especially now with some maturity and perspective. She went to BYU and did a 2 year mission, but since she was a girl she got to have a car instead of a bicycle.